I’ve been thinking a lot about grace lately. And sin. And
our attitude about sin.
My thoughts on grace were multiplied this past week when I
got pulled over for speeding.
There were so many things going on that led to the ticket. I
had been using cruise control the whole way to Kansas City but turned it off
once I reached the city. The route I took was right by downtown, which becomes
almost residential in areas and is very congested and confusing. As I was driving
through, being careful of the other traffic and watching for my exit, I missed
the speed limit signs. But because I was being passed on the left and right, I
figured I was ok. But I wasn’t. When that siren went off, I have to admit I
thought some other sucker was getting pulled over. Imagine my surprise when I
look in the mirror to see I am that sucker.
I had no idea what my speed was or the speed limit. So when
the officer said I was going 12 miles per hour over the speed limit, I had to
trust that was the truth. When I said I was going with traffic and being
passed, he said “yep, you can’t trust what everyone else is doing.” I handed
him my license and the registration. I was in a friend’s car so I could not
find the insurance.
The officer was very kind. We talked about my destination
(the airport) and he advised a different route on the way home to avoid the
downtown speed limit changes and traffic. We talked about my upcoming move to
Michigan and the fact that Missouri drivers are on the top 10 worst list for
the country. He then asked me if I wanted a cheap ticket or an expensive
ticket. I said if it is my choice, I would prefer the cheap ticket. (He said he
once had a gentleman say expensive… and that is what he gave him).
When the officer returned, he handed me a ticket for a seat
belt violation. He said it would be a lot cheaper than a ticket for speeding
and would not give me any points on my license. Then he said he did not write
me up for the insurance.
Ah grace… what a beautiful thing.
Since then I have retold this story, thinking everyone is
going to agree that I was given grace and rejoice with me. Only most of the
time that is not the reaction I was given. Most people have said “but if people
were passing you, he should have pulled them over instead.”
I get what they are saying. There were others (many, many
others) who were going a lot faster and did not get a ticket. And that doesn’t
seem fair, does it? But the thing is… I was guilty. I wasn’t going as fast and
I was not doing it intentionally… but I was still breaking the law. I was
guilty (and deserved a much larger ticket than I was given). And in that light,
I was more than grateful for the grace I was given.
As I thought about this reaction to my ticket, I couldn’t
help but think about how this mirrors common attitudes toward sin. How often do
I look at someone and rank their sin in order to make me feel better about my own
sin? “Yes I was sharing in a little gossip, but at least I didn’t
(fill-in-the-blank with anything I have seen others doing that I didn’t do… or didn’t
get caught doing...)” How often do the “greater” sins of others leave me
thinking I have nothing to repent because I’m not that bad?
But the thing is, I do sin – often. And when I ignore my
sins, I overlook the need to repent for those sins. And while I am so busy
justifying my sin, essentially I am crucifying Christ over and over again.
So as you think about grace today, don’t neglect to honestly
think about (and repent of) that sin in your life. Because we will never fully
understand and appreciate the amazing grace we have been given, until we can
honestly acknowledge the depth of the sin in our own lives.